Many issues today are polarized between two camps such as pro-life vs. pro-choice, Republican vs Democrat, and Mac vs PC. Ok so some are more important than others, but the idea is the same Both camps dig in with their ideology and tune out anything supporting common ground or the other side.
The more I experience, the more I find that most solutions end up in the middle somewhere. For example, as I get older, I'm finding myself gravitating more and more towards more Libertarian views on topics. This has led to a "liberalization" of my social ideas while I stick to my conservative ideas about the scope of government and how to manage the economy.
Likewise with the Pro-life/Pro-Choice debate I have changed my stance over time. When I was younger, I followed the straight ideology from the Roman Catholic Church. Life is life and under no circumstance should any human take that away. I still fully agree with this when it comes to abortion and embryonic research, but capital punishment is a little less black and white for me. In most cases, I think that life in prison is probably enough, but for some people, I am ok with the death penalty. Osama Bin Laden... yes, Saddam Hussein... yes, some random kid that got mixed up with a gang... probably not.
So what I'm trying to say with my rambling is that we need to take a closer look at a lot of issues in our world. It's time to come to the middle and learn about the other side. We might just find out that there's a bit of truth in the middle. And who knows, maybe we can take our energy and use it for something else like helping to feed the hungry or curing the sick.